We Are Responsible For Zainab Demise

Think of your child then, not as dead, but as living; not as a flower that has withered, but as one that is transplanted and touched by a Divine hand is blooming in richer colors and sweeter shades than those of earth.

                                                                                `                                         “Richard Hooker”

·         Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun, I felt grief-stricken and my pen is reduced to tears to write anything about the beloved daughter Zainab, The matter is about rotten minds evolving in the blood of Pakistan.

There are those who destroy society must be hanged must be put to justice but the reason behind these evil causes must be nip into bud. No one can replace Zainab, No one can fill the gap only Allah can shower the blessing to the suffering parents.

It’s been 11^th case reported in that area and beside all of the so-called technology still couldn’t identify the slayer. Morally we peoples are at the point of no return, where Allah said the daughters are like rose petal we are destroying them in the trash.

We are the culprits, we the hostages of our thoughts. We commit to the nation of saving them from external evils but actually, we can’t save our souls within we are a dead nation.

Across the board, we are blaming each other for this immodest act no one is blaming himself. 

We are the reason for the disaster in this society we created this society now we have to reap. The reason behind the rape-murder case can be anything except for humanity. It’s not about bad or worst it’s about lack of religion in our life we have provided technology to the generation but didn’t teach them how to use it. We taught them to speak English but we didn’t teach our values, our religion. We feel good watching movies but don’t organize the lectures on Islamic history. We are proud reading and understanding Shakespeare but don’t know about Hades. We are more interested in watching talk shows then listening Quran.

These mobs are the matter of days they will retune back to home and will be busy in their life they will forget Zainab sooner or later, but nothing will change until we change. Noting matter but everything matters we have to revert back to our values else we should be ready one day to receive our own daughters from the piles of a heap. 

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun,

“The death of a baby is like a stone cast into the stillness of a quiet pool; the concentric ripples of despair sweep out in all directions, affecting many, many people”

                                                                                                                        John DeFrain

Learn To Speak Last.

                         Learn To Speak Last.....

You will be told in your whole life that you must learn to listen. I would say, you need to learn to be the last to speak. We can take the example of world best case study of Nelson Mandela.

Nelson Mandela is universally regarded as the great leader of all times regardless of the culture, nation, and color. He was the son of the tribal chief in Africa. He was asked one day

How did you learn to be a great leader?

He Responded: He use to go with his father in the tribal meetings and he quoted two things his father used to follow and same he followed in his whole life.

        1- They always sit in a circle.

  

        2- His father is always the last to speak.

The skill to hold your opinion to yourself does two great things.

      a- It gives everyone the feeling that they have been heard. It also gives everyone else  
           the feeling that they have contributed.

      b-You will get the benefit of listening to everyone else opinion before you render 
           your opinion.

The skill to keep your opinion to yourself is very important, if you agree with some buddy, don’t node YES if you disagree with some buddy don’t node NO. Simply sit there and take it all in and the only thing you are allowed to do is to ask the question So that you can understand what they are saying, why they are saying, Why they have the opinion they have. Not just what they are speaking. And in the end you will get your turn, It sounds very easy but it's not. Practice being the last to speak. This is what Nelson Mandela did.